Monday, December 27, 2010

Weekend Review: Minding My Mitochondria by Terry L. Wahls, M.D.

Minding My Mitochondria 2nd Edition: How I overcame secondary progressive multiple sclerosis (MS) and got out of my wheelchair.
I first heard Dr. Wahls' story on the radio a couple of years ago and I have been anxiously awaiting the publication of this book ever since.  In Minding My Mitochondria: How I overcame secondary progressive multiple sclerosis (MS) and got out of my wheelchair (2010), Wahls does two things.  First, she briefly tells us the story of how she was diagnosed with relapsing-remitting multiple sclerosis and how her body failed her until she found herself in a wheelchair.  Then she details how she helped her body heal itself to the point that now she can not only walk again, she bikes eight miles a day.  After her original diagnosis in 2000, she was reclassified as having secondary progressive MS in 2003, which responds very poorly to treatment.  As a doctor, she was able to easily consult with the best minds in the field and she was told that her only hope was to slow the progression of the disease as much as possible because once she lost functions, she would never be able to regain them.  She took incredibly strong immune suppression drugs, to no avail.  By the end of that year she was wheelchair bound and quickly losing more and more functionality.  At this point, she decided to take matters into her own hands.  No one really knows what causes MS, but it does seem to have something to do with antibodies that destroy myelin, the protective covering surrounding nerves.  She used this as a jumping off point and studied the literature about all studies done involving a variety of degenerative diseases to try to figure out why brain cells died and to try to come up with a theory about how to repair them.

She concluded that the standard American diet is so poor in micronutrients, that our brain cells are literally starving and when one is stricken with a disease such as MS, the body just doesn't have the raw materials with which to heal itself.  Since there has been no research done in this area, she decided that her only hope of salvation would be to experiment on herself.  She devised a diet that is composed mostly of fruits, vegetables and essential fatty acids (fish oil, flax/hemp oil, etc.), has moderate amounts of meat, and excludes grains with gluten and dairy.  She paired this with a regimen of electrostimulation and physical therapy to help regain her muscular strength and in only 18 months had regained her ability to walk.

Dr. Wahls poignantly points out that even though all doctors take the Hippocratic Oath, they very often ignore (or are unaware) of the ancient Greek physician's charge to "let good, wholesome food be thy medicine."  I think that, in general, our society is incredibly impatient.  We want all our ills to be cured by popping a magic pill.  What we really need is to treat our bodies with respect and to eat a diet that is focused on nutrition so that our bodies have the tools needed to take care of themselves.

This book is absolutely jam packed with information.  It reads like a science journal article, but don't let that scare you away.  You may have to call upon some long forgotten high school biology lessons, but she does a wonderful job of explaining her point and then summarizing in language that those without a science background can understand, as well as including illustrations of the concepts.  If you are so inclined, she provides an extensive reference list (over 300 sources) that one could consult should you want to read the science yourself.  She also includes a number of helpful appendices: examples of the foods that she emphasized in her diet, over 100 recipes using those foods, sample menus, a nutrient and function chart, etc.  This book is targeted to those with MS or other degenerative diseases, but there is much in here that we can all learn and apply to our lives.

Friday, December 24, 2010

This Moment: Christmas Eve Day

Playing along with SouleMama today.  In her words:  {this moment} - A Friday ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. If you're inspired to do the same, leave a link to your 'moment' in the comments for all to find and see.

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Winter Solstice


Today was gray and dreary in my neck of the woods.  Here's to more light and the return of longer days.  May your Solstice be peaceful and spent in the company of those you love.

Monday, December 20, 2010

Birth Kit


Our home birth kit arrived a couple of days ago.  I had a moment in which I started to panic that I hadn't ordered it yet, thinking that it could never come in time and then what would I do.  Of course, it was on my doorstep two days later and I still have plenty of weeks of waiting.  I've never been an in-person witness to a hospital birth or experienced one myself, but it seems that there are so many more accoutrements in that setting than are in this small box.  Of course, our midwives have their own supplies that they will bring, but everything in here seems so simple.  Just some sterile gloves.  Some gauze.  The basics.  I like it. 

The little newborn cap makes me tear up a little.

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Weekend Review: Free-Range Kids by Lenore Skenazy

Free-Range Kids, How to Raise Safe, Self-Reliant Children (Without Going Nuts with Worry)
Lenore Skenazy gained the label of "America's worst mom" when she wrote about allowing her 9-year-old son to ride the New York subway unaccompanied.  In response to the deluge of criticism she wrote Free-Range Kids: Giving our children the freedom we had without going nuts with worry (2009).  In it, she uses recent crime statistics to support her argument that, with regards to violent crimes and abductions, today's kids are actually growing up in the safest times since the 1970s.  Not only are "helicopter parents" worrying unnecessarily, the ways in which they restrict their children's activities and independence actually makes them less prepared to deal with any number of real dangers that they might someday face.  She advocates a common sense approach, stressing that you know your child best and although it may be difficult, it is necessary to trust our kids and to slowly allow them to do more things on their own.  Not only does this prepare them to be functional and independent adults, it also allows kids the freedom to experience the joys of childhood.  Going to the corner store alone to fetch an item is a far different experience than walking there with mom or dad.  Kids need to feel the empowerment of doing things on their own.

This is a very enjoyable book to read.  Skenazy has great wit, her writing style is a pleasure to follow, and I pretty much already agreed with her thesis statement.  Unfortunately, like some blogs-turned-books, there seems to be a fair amount of padding here to make this a book-length work.  Skenazy opens with fourteen "free-range commandments", followed by a seemingly random A-to-Z guide to things one might be worried about and her attempt to neutralize those worries.  Her argument about the necessity of respecting our children's autonomy and her criticism of preaching "stranger danger" are very strong and I wish that she would have stopped there.  Instead, we also get her opinion on a whole range of topics that bring us away from her main point and cause me (someone who is already on her side) to question her logic.  There is something a little inconsistent about it.  We're to "only" listen to parenting advice from people with impressive letters after their names, but we should also "ignore the experts."  We should never turn to Internet resources that connect us with other moms who have similar concerns, yet she runs a blog that does just that.  She's very critical of advertising tactics used by big corporations and acknowledges that their main concern is their bottom line, but believes that they would never cut costs in ways that would harm the general public and that regulatory bodies such as the FDA are very successful in making sure that no harmful things find their way into our children's lives. (!)

Overall, the best part of this book were the excerpts taken from her blog that were written by real moms expressing how they are judged when they try to give their kids some freedom.  I wish that Skenazy would have padded her pages with these instead.  Additionally, I would have been interested to read in more depth about how the death of community has fostered these irrational child abduction fears and I would have liked some suggestions about community building actions that could help counter this.  She offers plenty of advice about how to give your own child more freedom, but I would have liked to read about how we could all come together as a community to overcome these fears together.

Friday, December 17, 2010

This Moment: Affirmations

Playing along with SouleMama today.  In her words:
{this moment} - A Friday ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. If you're inspired to do the same, leave a link to your 'moment' in the comments for all to find and see.

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Belly Landscapes


Individual days seem to fly by more quickly than I can capture, but the weeks continue to tick by ever so slowly.  I feel a need to complete a whole list of tasks "before the baby comes."  Not because they are necessary to caring for a new life, but because my mind is truly boggled about how to do much of anything with an infant in tow.  While definitely causing me to slow down, s/he is at least wrapped snug and warm inside of me and I don't have to worry about the logistics of things like travel.


I went to a Bellydancing for Birth workshop this past weekend.  It was just at the edge of my comfort zone and was a lovely experience.  Female strength is something that I've always "believed" in and held sacred, but I've never felt the need to celebrate it in the way that some do.  I think this is partially due to my shyness; to celebrate any aspect of my person makes me a little nervous as I generally like to stay as far away from the spotlight as possible.  But, it is something that I would like my daughters to experience.  To know that womanhood is special and unique and worth building alters to.

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Sorta Crafty Christmas


My usual yarn winding assistant is the intended recipient of this project, so I was on my own to get this one started.  I thought that with the sudden increase in time at home I would pull together all sorts of handmade goodies for Christmas this year.  Such will not be the case.  I think I need more than a month to ruminate and plan for such things.  But, one special someone will be getting a handmade gift and I will consider it a success if I get just that much done!

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Babes in Carriers


Last night Steve and I met up with his cousin who was passing through town on business.  We had amazing Indian food, conversation, and laughter and she very generously gifted us with the carrier she used with her own two babes.  It's a Bloo Kangaroo and so far (without actually using it yet) I love it.  My belly fits nicely where the baby will eventually go.  Steve likes that it has buckles, which appeal to the engineer side of his brain.  Slings make him a little nervous.  They're too simple.

I'm very taken with the prospect of babywearing.  It sounds very practical but also incredibly gentle and nurturing.  I don't have any memories of being carried myself, although I do know that my mom had a baby backpack type carrier around when I was little.  One of those numbers with the rigid metal frame.  I think it was gray.  I'm very fortunate in that I have access to a local babywearing support group, which is good because I'm nervous about getting the hang of it.  There are so many different carriers out there...I'm really interested to hear some perspectives on what worked well for others.